New Friends

Pueblo, CO: Night 1

As the time to meet my host grew nearer, I began to wonder more and more if I should refrain from going, suck it up, and spend another night in my car. But something told me to give it a try, embark on a new adventure, and one where I hopefully didn't get killed. I decided to go along with it and that I would put my feelers out and trust my gut instinct as soon as I arrived. After talking to Kevin once more and getting his address, I punched it into in my GPS and headed toward the unknown. I kept saying silent prayers in my head, all the while trying not to let the texts from Josh telling me to go buy pepper spray or a knife or something get to my head. The most hilarious text came as soon as I arrived; Josh had google mapped Kevin's house and taken a picture to show me he knew where I was staying. It was extremely comforting and made me laugh knowing he still cared enough to make sure I would be OK. I took in a breath, said one more silent prayer, and headed toward Kevin's front door.

All my anxieties immediately melted away. Kevin and I started talking, and talking, and talking. Before I knew it, I realized I was actually talking to the exact replica of me! Except in a males form and a few years older. It was such a strange sensation, but I've never felt more at ease so soon in my life! I laughed off my silly insecurities and thoughts from before, and tried to enjoy my new found friend. We ended up going out for a late dinner. Kevin took me to an amazing "hole in the wall" Mexican place where I ordered what he recommended, the California burrito-ironic? I was a little hesitant when I found out the mixture inside consisted of meat, french fries, and mixed vegetables. But as soon as I took a bite, I kept going until I had scarfed it all down! Granted, it was partially because I hadn't eaten most of day, but It was also one of the most delicious and different burritos I've ever had! Another point for Kevin! Budget conscious AND a terrific palette. I was becoming more enamored and extremely intrigued at all of the coincidences that kept popping up. He explained that he was an environmental scientist who considers himself a minimalist, only using what he needs and not giving into materialism. He is also extremely active in athletics and outdoor activities, refusing to own a car and instead riding his bike everywhere, "taking in the scenery" as he puts it. He also does yoga, juggles, and openly admits that he likes things that are out of the ordinary. A man after my own heart! He is also very soft spoken and calm, emanating a sense of peace that is extremely encompassing. I had never felt so comfortable so fast, especially in a "strangers" home. To top it off, he had a cat which I immediately fell in love with. I've never liked cats.

We finished our dinner and proceeded to watch a movie with Italian subtitles. Neither of us were paying much attention considering the strange story line and difficulty in concentrating on the tiny words, but instead kept alternating questions which gave more insight into my growing suspicion that this had to be my brother from another mother! After a little while, we both began to nod off and decided to head off to bed. While saying goodnight, Kevin graciously offered for me to stay another night if I felt so inclined. As soon as he said it, I knew I wanted to, and told him so. We both headed off in opposite directions. I had my own room complete with air mattress. I admit, I still stuck a sweater under the door as a door jam just to be cautious, even though I knew I had nothing to worry about. I snuggled up, uploaded my pictures for the day, and whispered one more silent prayer-thank you.